I invest my own capital. That means I have nothing to prove to anyone and no one to win over. It also means I only go in where I can judge the market myself.
Some of my investments come out of promerget mandates. I have worked with those companies for six months before investing. That is an advantage and a risk at the same time, which is why the rules are fixed:
The advisory mandate ends before the investment is signed. No commission is charged on capital I provide myself. There is no right of first refusal in the advisory agreement. And every co-investor is told in the first conversation that I advised the company.
If you would rather not go that route, pitch me directly. That is the normal path and it is just as open.
I am not in weekly check-ins. I am there when it comes to financing, acquisitions or an exit — the three moments where most founders are doing something for the first time that I have done ten times.